It's ironic, but people who is easily annoyed is usually the annoying person himself.
=words of lamehood by lameleftygirl - inspired just this morning=
Am I being sarcastic to myself? Maybe. Maybe not.
I am a person who can tolerate with a lot of people, and I am not proud of this because that means that I am not straightforward enough. Whenever I felt annoyed, I keep it to myself, secretly wishing and praying to God that this annoying person would change somehow. Or at least be more conscious of their behaviour.
But then, this kind of toleration I only applied when I am with girls.
But when it comes to guys, it's a different story. I don't really care, especially if the guy is a stranger. Sometimes I am blunt when it comes to guys. Ice queen. The way I talk to guys and the way I talk to girls, if you noticed, it's a little different. With girls, my jokes are kinda filtered and lebih lemah lembut (except for when I joke with my sista) but when I joke with guys, I never hesitate to go to the extend of teasing them harshly or becoming more laser.
Maybe I have grudges against guys. Thanks to my high school experience. Truth to be told, I never really have guy friends during my high school except for three to four guy friends. That was why, my mother would tease me with even any little my guy friends that I had (even with some guys whom obviously are not into girls, ya know what I mean) because maybe she would be worried that I will stay single. Well, mama, see, now in university, I have guy friends, but still, I'm single hahah. The theory about the more guy friends you have, the more probability for prospective partner cannot be applied because the more guy friends you have, the more comfortable you are, and you don't look at them in romantic sort but in a family way. It's not in the quality or quantity, mama, it's in the chemistry, biology and most importantly, destiny.
Ok, maybe you will ask, why suddenly this topic?
Well, I lost the 30 day blogging challenge, but there's one topic from the 30 day list that I think is worth sharing.
Which was 5 things that annoy me from the opposite sex..
It's not hard for me to list down these five things because:
1st, I have bad experience. Really bad experience with guys.
2nd, due to this experience, I guess I've become sexist sometimes. (keyword: SOMETIMES. Now guys, don't you even think of running away from me)
1) I HATE GUYS WHO...
is easily perasan. (how do we call perasan in English by the way?) Usually this kind of guy is so full of himself. "Yeah, I'm the best! I deserve the best girl!" Ptuih. Look at the mirror. This kind of guy, he felt great when pretty girls admire him, but when ugly girl admire him, he felt somewhat disgusted what the heck.
I kinda had this experience back in high school. If you think I'm ugly now, I was uglier back then. I don't even look like a guy, I looked more like a bapok that time.
It was during my form 1. I was a really quiet person in class. Why? First of all, majority of my classmates speaks Mandarin. Me? Hokkien, English, and broken Mandarin. So instead of embarrassing myself of speaking broken Mandarin, I opted to remain silent in the class.
So there was this guy, who was my classmate for a very long time, he was very popular in this class. Everybody laughed at his jokes. I was one of them. The thing is, just because I laughed at his jokes, people around me thought that I liked him. (-_-") Please la... I was somewhat annoyed, why people would make that assumption about me, why people accused that I liked him when there were many others who laughed at his jokes. WTH! But then, I was a quiet girl, so I just didn't bother about it. But the problem was, from what I'd observed, he was bothered. I knew why. Maybe if I was a more popular, prettier and a smarter girl, he would not really be bothered about it. Instead, he would feel good about himself. But since I'm ugly, I'm unpopular, I'm *insert any cruel adjective inside*, he felt rather embarrassed instead of felt "wow, somebody admired me." He felt... disgusted.
All my high school life, I tried to not cross my path with him. I felt awkward. I wished I could just spill on his face and say "Sorry, you've misunderstood. I never had feelings for you. I just like your jokes and that's all." But of course, I didn't do it. Instead of hating him (because majority people liked him), I hated myself. I hated myself for causing this misunderstanding.
For five years my high school life was shadowed by this hurtful experience and I didn't add him in facebook until now. So guys, moral of the story: kalau nak perasan ada orang minat kau pun, jangan nak memilih atau memandang rendah kat peminat kau. Cause belum tentu lagi orang tu minat kat KAU! PAHAM! Percuma ja high skul life aku kena ruined gara-gara lelaki perasan camni. HUH!
2) I HATE GUYS WHO...
is judgmental. Just because he's kononnya perfect, he wanted to lecture you on every single thing. *yawn* Like, oh, 'girls should not do this. Girls should not do that.' Yeah, I know, you are just being caring and protective, but why the word 'girls'? So if guys do that same thing, it's okay la? Double standard. Heh! And furthermore, this kind of guy will ask you stupid questions like 'Do you drink?' which means that they wanted to risik-risik whether you have the ciri-ciri isteri idaman. One thing boy, if you REALLY like someone, you would observe it on your own instead of interviewing the girl that you like. Girls like to be noticed, not to be interrogated. And one thing, just because someone drinks, does that make her a bad person? And one more thing, when you really liked or loved someone, why can't you handle some little imperfection about her? You're not all that perfect yourself! Enough said.
3) I HATE GUYS WHO...
4) I HATE GUYS WHO...
is a control freak. My former student, Mary (bukan nama sebenar) has this kind of boyfriend. Tell you what, Mary is just only 14, but her boyfriend wanted to control her every single move. For example, Mary wasn't allowed to hang out with her besties, what the heck. Tell you what, this same boyfriend was caught cheating with Mary's own friend last time. I hope I can influence my former student to dump this kind of guy.
5) I HATE GUYS WHO...
is desperate and horny. Pleading us to be his girlfriends through the phones? (-_-") But apart all that, I'm still his friend cause he's special case. Not like all that other normal kind of guys mentioned above. HMMPH!
That's all for now. Reminiscing all these hurtful stuff just ruined my early morning.
But maybe the timing's just right cause I will have to go for confession after this.
Have a nice Thursday.
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10 comments:
punya la lamak tunggu ko update. i miss ur writings hahahaha
sangat setuju with the 5 things. abt experience number 1, aku pun pernah kenak. it change me to what i am now. dolok aku senyap2, ppl selalu misunderstood... mcm sik percaya aku senyap2 kan hahaha...
sebab kinek tok teroverdose bercakap. bcos of him, now i speak whtever tht comes into my mind. even melawak pun. thts why, smtms, lawak aku pun over...like, merenung pukek sendirik @ fm house.
aku rasa selamat being like this. but, kdg2 ada juak org msh perasan. when i make jokes abt them or joking with them, mula la perasan. tp, sik seteruk dolok la. at least now i can sya whts on my mind dgn cara paling selamba hahaha (aku rasa la)
the last one, i can't help but LOL. AD KHOR la ya kan??? hahahahaha
puhaha a long-lost-bapok tagged my post! ptuih!
lawak la ko amau ngaku dirik bapok! kekekeke
saya satuju sama samua ciritt2 d atas~!
hahahaha I say I agree :)
well, ur not bapok la. rmbr my friend who said your smile is sweet? and it wasn't because he wanted to ambil my hati. i guess it's cos ur smile tunjuk semua gigi. hahahaha :p
biarla org itu perasan. u dun like guys who sweet talk? i like o... tapi kena awas la. mulut mesti ada insurans. sweet talking makes me feel good and more confident. tapi only for that purpose la. at the end of the day, i want my bf to only sweet talk me (tapi must be WITH actions). if semua chicks pun dia target, awas esok hari dia punya lidah saya gunting.
d rest, aku setuju.
another thing, i x like guys who cakap besar tapi x action. pandai complain ini complain itu, action satu pun tarak.
oh, abt the perasan guy, biarla. why let it ruin ur high school. that's why now i jadi the "perasan" girl. i mean, i sukati ja bagitau kat mana2 lelaki yg aku tau mereka suka tengok aku sbb aku cantik. no harm rite? mcm tu, mrk xdpt perasan. i mean, like i care. don't let it bother u. if ur bothered lagi ppl will think it's real.
like i'm bothered when ppl say i'm ugly, cos reli i'm not my own taste. tapi apa nak buat. syukur je kan. at least semua lokasi organ2 & anggota2 adalah betul. rite?
at least, ur not a Susan Mayer rite?
malangnya mel,
walaupun organ ko berada di lokasi yg betul, wiring ko maybe ada prob... banyak la. sik sikit.
sbb ya la mcm terencat jak. boleh join mekorg wakakakaka...
i like. the chua sister. no matter what.
word verification aku - diagra ...tukar jadi 'v' ...omypeanut... O.o
:') OMG u girls! *group hug* lol.
Claire: Kan...High school's memory, no matter how hard it was, will always remain in our minds. SUsah mauk kasi lupa..huhu. About u being pendiam, lol, susah mok bayangkan if we see u now, but mun sik silap last time, u mentioned in your blog with ur high skul pic... maybe, sometimes, there's blessing in disguise for the bad experience kan? it made us more determined to improve ourselves. I hope that if there's any high skul reunion, i can come back with my head held high. And greet him in the face like nothing happened.
Step: lol. mun ko nangga gambar name tag aku, ko akan ingat laki ka ya. lol. dah la dengan stail rambut 'M' kat depan ya.. XD
Ebeth: thanks Bebeh! Eh Bebeth lol. Sometimes i wish these people will get a taste of their own medicines.
Mel: yea? when did your friend said that? Masa i tengah form 1 ke dah sesi pagi? Cos masa I was form 1, i realized that I looked really... erm... unsatisfactory lol. And really low self esteem. But that was okay, cos last time my classmate, she also looked so tomboyish back then but now she's turning into one hot smokin lady.
Guys who sweet talk, yea, i know, they made us feel good. But when u felt that he's doing the same, for example he told you "you know, you're different from other girl i know." Then he went around telling other girls the same thing. Tak rasa tertipah ke? Btw, that sweet talk must have skill one. Like remember our cousin Ah Bi? He was good at talking, but at the same time, he didn't memuji us sangat. He joked. Okayla. Org yg sweet talk itu mesti ada skill, and mesti ada action. Hahah
saya sokong mel! amau's smile could brighten d room! bna la bapok, aku x bulak!
senyum tanda confident. mcm lee hyori, her smile buat dia nampak high
konfiden - dat's y org pdhnya seksi sbb KONFIDEN YG DATANG DARI SMILE ITU ADALAH SEXXAYYY~
reunion high skul? huh mekorg tp2 taun wajib polah smpe aku pun malas nak g dah sbb mekorg dlok diam asarama, dr kecik smpe bsar sntiasa bsama, so xda rasa pa2. perbezaan juz bilangan kedut d muka msg2, ya jak. haha
tp kan amau, ko ptt polah d prasan guy ya sbg cgek sweet memory, k. think positive, msti bnda ya dolok plah ko sakit hati but now ia adalah sesuatu yg SUPER LAWAK! wakakaka
CLAIRE, abt d thing u said MEL ada salah wiring, aku xpat padah apa mlainkan aku SETUJU GILAK2! ngahahaha
Mau! i know who is that person! and i somehow hope he sees this post! eye-opener for him. hehe!
i want to share2 with u too. cos sharing is caring, hahaha (ok that was lame.) T_T sorry.
i am the same with you. i treat guys differently also. im serious. lol see how i treat my brother. hahah kesian him. XD i think my different attitude towards guys is bcos last time in our primary sch, we always like kena teased if we sit next to guys. our teachers la. always kacau us. then i feel so paiseh T___T also because i am very ego. i dont like how guys like to show they are more "powerful" like that.. i like to be stronger than guys tho the true fact is that im not la! which is why to make myself feel stronger i am more sarcastic and straight forward towards guys. tee hee. am i evil or wat?
eh who is number 5?!? how come i dono about this!! share!!! (secretly if u don want others to know la.)
Step: thanks Step, lol. sik tau smile aku ada berapa watt sampe boleh brighten up a room aha.
oh mekorang blm ada reunion.. ada reunion primary skul tapi sbb bukan year mekorang gik, so belum gik pergi.. kan, now i felt like that was one funny memory...
Bayangkan nya boleh perasan yg aku suka ngannya for 5 years. Yeh, aku mana da begitu setia kecuali dengan Shah Rukh Khan. Ya pun sebab SRK ya superstar. Nya? (kdk menghina jak statement lol)
Ada: yea, i hope that he reads this post too. lol. but i wonder will he 'perasan' that it's him that i wrote since he will be so convinced that i really like him? Lol.
Yea, betul2.. during our primary skul, we kinda have one barrier with guys.. if mesra sikit, ah, start la whewit here and there. Mesra means skandal instead of friendship kan? haiz~
lol. No 5 is one funny story.. actually i didn't really hate that guy but i hated the way he approached us. I treated him like a friend, but he scared the hell out of me and my friends sometimes hahah
step madah org, nya empun brapa kali dah.. ku rasa technician pun dah give up la... komplikated gilak wiring nya :p
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